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Saturday, May 13, 2017

Girl/Woman Dysphoria-Silently Harming Lesbians for Centuries

I've written various posts touching on the subject of Lesbian discomfort with/in Heterosexual norms, but until now I havent written specifically on it. In my post Lesbian Children are NOT Girls I wrote:
"Usually by age three, Lesbians (no matter the variety) do not comfortably identify with the category Girl."

Girl/Woman is a catagory of Female that alienates Lesbians from other Lesbians, and worse from ourselves as Lesbians. The seeds of that alienation are planted from the moment baby Lesbians can adequately see/feel (Even blind Lesbian youths feel uncomfortable with Heterosexual categories of Female). As Lesbians grow/learn and are soon wrongfully labeled Girl, the seeds of Dysphoria begin to grow in every single Lesbian who has ever existed and currently will ever exist.

A huge part of Lesbian's Girl/Woman Dysphoria (GWD) lies in its untranslatableness to Lesbians beginning at birth. Girl/Woman isnt something Lesbians get/understand. It makes little to no sense to us, even when grown. If Girl/Woman is foreign to Lesbian brains, it is equally foreign to our Lesbian tongues. Lesbians do not speak Girl/Women, we speak Lesbian. I will elaborate more on this specifically in a future post, for now I simply want mention it in the general as it is part of the totality of Lesbian feelings of being different/foreign/alien/ugly.

Lesbian children arent simply uncomfortable with/in the confines of a heterosexual world, we are mortified even by any freedoms of Girl/Women! Meaning, no matter how open/free/feminist Girl/Woman is, for Lesbians, it remains foreign at best, a nightmare at worst. This distress begins pre-verbal, even if heterosexual parents/caregivers lack the homosexual understanding to recognize early Lesbian distress signals, they ARE present!

Because Girls/Women and Lesbians share a sex (female) there is confusion that Lesbians are Girls/Women. Young Dykes or baby Butches might stand out visually to heterosexual adults more than say Femme youths, but all forms of Lesbian children stand out to other children/to ourselves. All Lesbian children (yes even those who can sport girls clothes when required), are aghast at being called a Girl, even if we say nothing. Because really, what can we say? We dont exist in a way that we can say "Wait a minute, I'm not a Girl" and have it make sense to heterosexuals. Although many Lesbian children have said as much. Met with something between parental confusion/horror or a gentle reminder that yes, we are Girls. Maybe even a child explanation of how Boys and Girls are different. Yes. We know we arent Boys. But many young Dykes wished we were, just so we would no longer be called that thing WE know that we are not-Girl! Ick!

If/when a Lesbian child gets an explanation about how she is not a Boy, whether or not she brought up the subject, heterosexuals immediately go to "you're not a Boy" if a Lesbian child indicates in heterosexuality-land that she isnt a Girl/isnt like a Girl/cannot relate to Girl/s. These are the only two catagories of humans Heterosexuals default to. And while predominantly that is true, Girl and Boy (female/male) are the prime candidates for Humans-both categories are also defaulted to Heterosexual Girl or Boy! Lesbian children are NOT obviously Heterosexual! Therefore our Lesbian behaviour/thought processes/interests/functions etc are Hetsplained to us by Heterosexuals!

Causing more confusion and more strength in what we know vs what we can explain and be heard/understood, that we are NOT Girls anymore than we are not Boys! The longer this repeat function continues, the deeper the Girl/Women Dysphoria (GWD) roots. The thickness of the root depends of variables of life; personality/IQ, family, friends, school systems, religion, etc. Regardless, ALL Lesbians suffer some form of GWD.

Some general issues GWD creates for Lesbians:
  • Preventing Lesbians from entering school sports by demands of Lesbians adhering to Girl uniforms.
  • Lesbian discomfort/horror with School uniforms for Girls.
  • Lesbian repulsion for being assumed Girl/Woman, despite not behaving/functioning Straight.
  • Parents/authority figures treating Lesbians as Heterosexual (Girl/Woman).
  • Lesbians misunderstanding our own discomfort/horror in Girl/Woman (heterosexuality).
  • Parents/authority figures misunderstanding Lesbians GWD.
  • Parents/authority figures assuming Lesbian children a trapped in the wrong body, when Lesbian children display horror at being thought of/pressured into Girl/Women i.e. Heterosexual female norms.
  • Lesbian discomfort/horror in female bodily growth/functions because we fear turning into Girls/Women.
  • Lesbians being treated/flagged as "different" from a young age without anyone ever being able to name that difference.
  • Acute Lesbian fears from childhood we will "act like other Girls/Women" once we grow up.
The Girl/Woman Dysphoria Lesbians face and feel beginning from birth and sometimes not ending until death, is a deeply felt fear/shame/anger/pain and assorted other extreme emotions no Lesbian (regardless even of positive circumstance) reaches adulthood/old age unscathed. The greatest issue facing Lesbians is our Girl/Woman Dysphoria. This issue until NOW while having been noticed (Lesbians being/acting/functioning different), GWD has been misunderstood. And the simple fact is, in the hands of Heterosexuals, GWD will remain Hetsplained at best and Hetsplained at the worst. Like everything Lesbians have lived and died through under Heterosexuality, we cannot rely on Heterosexuals to explain Lesbian to Lesbians. Only WE can understand our brains, our bodies, our feelings and adequately communicate our Lesbian lives/feelings back to ourselves.

This post will be the first of many on Girl/Woman Dysphoria, its importance to Lesbian Health and equilibrium is unparalleled, particularly amid ersatz Identity Politics.

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Friday, May 5, 2017

Nevertheless, She Persisted-Portrait of a Lesbian

She persisted, a phase heard today that can get you kudos on one hand or transitioned in the other, the other is the focus of this post.

The homophobic DSM dream team put next to no limits on when a gender-non-conforming child/teen/adult should be transitioned. Our monoheteroist society supports DSM doKtors/theories because they align with most of their own. Liberals have easily been lead by their politically correct nostrils to support Transgenderism in case someone somewhere at some point in time may be offended. And the not-so-Trans-critical agree/support a wait-till-you're-a-bit-older approach to transition. ALL agree that there MUST be a persistence of gender non-conformity. But how long of a persistence?

She didnt look quite like a Girl, she didnt act like a Girl, she didnt process or use information like a Girl. Nevertheless, she persisted! At 5 months should she have been transitioned into a faux boy?

She didnt look quite like a Girl, she didnt act like a Girl, she didnt process or use information like a Girl. Nevertheless, she persisted! At 9 months should she have been transitioned into a faux boy?


She didnt look quite like a Girl, she didnt act like a Girl, she didnt process or use information like a Girl. She preferred balls to dolls. Nevertheless, she persisted! At 1 year should she have been transitioned into a faux boy?
She didnt look quite like a Girl, she didnt act like a Girl, she didnt process or use information like a Girl. She got her first mini-bike at age four. Despite the long locks, she repeatedly was asked from strangers whether she was a Girl or a Boy. Nevertheless, she persisted! At age 5 should she have been transitioned into a faux boy?
She didnt look quite like a Girl, she didnt act like a Girl, she didnt process or use information like a Girl. She caught a 12 inch perch at age 4 while her dad cheered her on. Despite the long locks, she repeatedly was asked from strangers whether she was a Girl or a Boy. Nevertheless, she persisted! At age 6 should she have been transitioned into a faux boy?
She didnt look quite like a Girl, she didnt act like a Girl, she didnt process or use information like a Girl. She wanted to be Bruce Lee. Despite the long locks, she repeatedly was asked from strangers whether she was a Girl or a Boy. Nevertheless, she persisted! At age 7 should she have been transitioned into a faux boy?
She didnt look quite like a Girl, she didnt act like a Girl, she didnt process or use information like a Girl. She had a Big Wheel and caught even bigger fish. Despite the long locks, she repeatedly was asked from strangers whether she was a Girl or a Boy. Nevertheless, she persisted! At age 8 should she have been transitioned into a faux boy?
She didnt look quite like a Girl, she didnt act like a Girl, she didnt process or use information like a Girl. She was strong, shy and was usually found in t-shirts and shorts. Despite the long locks, she repeatedly was asked from strangers whether she was a Girl or a Boy. Nevertheless, she persisted! At age 9 should she have been transitioned into a faux boy?
She didnt look quite like a Girl, she didnt act like a Girl, she didnt process or use information like a Girl. She got a bigger, faster mini-bike. Despite the long locks, she repeatedly was asked from strangers whether she was a Girl or a Boy. Nevertheless, she persisted! At age 10 should she have been transitioned into a faux boy?
She didnt look quite like a Girl, she didnt act like a Girl, she didnt process or use information like a Girl. Her dad taught her how to ride a dirt-bike when she was 10. Despite the long locks, she repeatedly was asked from strangers whether she was a Girl or a Boy. Nevertheless, she persisted! At age 11 should she have been transitioned into a faux boy?
She didnt look quite like a Girl, she didnt act like a Girl, she didnt process or use information like a Girl. She palled around with a few of her uncles. Despite the long locks, she repeatedly was asked from strangers whether she was a Girl or a Boy. Nevertheless, she persisted! At age 15 should she have been transitioned into a faux teenage boy?
She didnt look like a Woman, she didnt act like a Woman, she didnt process or use information like a Woman. She was assumed to be a male by most strangers and routinely harassed whenever she used a public bathroom. Nevertheless, she persisted! At age 30 should she have been transitioned into a faux man?
She didnt look like a Woman, she didnt act like a Woman, she didnt process or use information like a Woman. She was assumed to be a male by most strangers and routinely harassed whenever she used a public bathroom. She loved cats. Nevertheless, she persisted! At age 33 should she have been transitioned into a faux man?
She didnt look like a Woman, she didnt act like a Woman, she didnt process or use information like a Woman. She was assumed to be a male by most strangers and routinely harassed whenever she used a public bathroom. She loved cats. She loved family. She had her first Xmas without her father. Nevertheless, she persisted! At age 36 should she have been transitioned into a faux man?
She didnt look like a Woman, she didnt act like a Woman, she didnt process or use information like a Woman. She was assumed to be a male by most strangers and routinely harassed whenever she used a public bathroom. She loved cats. She loved family. She celebrated Xmas with her mentally handicapped older brother who is 27 years her senior. Nevertheless, she persisted! At age 45 should she have been transitioned into a faux man?
She didnt look like a Woman, she didnt act like a Woman, she didnt process or use information like a Woman. She was assumed to be a male by most strangers and routinely harassed whenever she used a public bathroom. She loves cats. She loves family. She works hard. She strives for the Good. She fights for whats right, even when what is right is on the wrong side of the law. Nevertheless, she persisted! At age 47 should she have been transitioned into a faux man?

She didnt look like a Woman, she didnt act like a Woman, she didnt process or use information like a Woman. She was assumed to be a male by most strangers and routinely harassed whenever she used a public bathroom. She loves cats. She loves family. She works hard. She strives for the Good. She fights for whats right, even when what is right is on the wrong side of the law. She married happily. She celebrates her and her wife's first home together. Nevertheless, she persisted!
At age 49 should she have been transitioned into a faux man?

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Saturday, April 29, 2017

Gold Star Lesbians-How STRAIGHTBIANS Bash Dykes for be Lesbian

Most Dykes over the age of twenty have heard the term Gold Star Lesbian, most however have rarely ever used the term ourselves. Some general consensus on Gold Star Lesbians:
  • Gold star lesbian is a term used by the LGBT community to describe a lesbian who has never had a romantic or sexual relationship with a man. This is not considered respectable by the wider LGBT community.
  • Gold star: A lesbian who’s never been with a man (a sometimes rare but worthy find).
  • Gold star sucks and needs to die”. So let us kill, Kill, KILL...The term “gold star” perpetuates rape culture by excluding some people who need support and love. Also, having sex with men is tough to avoid if you’re a queer woman who enjoys sex with men.
  • A gold star lesbian is a lesbian who has never dated, had sex with a man...But this is a highly problematic and toxic mindset to embed into the lesbian community. By stating that a lesbian is “gold star”, it ignores lesbians who may have experimented with their sexuality, are survivors of sexual assault, and is extremely transphobic, biphobic and cissexist.
  • Gold Star Snobs will only ever date women they deem to be “genuine lesbians” and turn their noses up at anyone who can even spell penis. They’re the racists of the LGBT community, making Bi-women feel ashamed and intimidated and shunning anyone who chooses a life that isn’t die-hard-lez.
Here's the thing, Lesbians do not use fuck buddy scales to weigh who is more Lesbian. Where you see this DICKsgusting strategy employed, rest assured there is a (damaged/warped/crazy) Straight/STRAIGHTBIAN behind it! The derivatives of Gold Star Lesbian spring from two direct areas that spell out in no uncertain terms-HeteroSEXual! The first derivative being SEX and the second being MEN.

While sex figures slightly in Lesbian, it isnt the end-all and be-all of all Dykes. Our Lesbian genetics were mapped long before we born or even conceived, yet Heterosexuals continue to paint Lesbian with the broad brush stroke of girl on girl/women on women/female on female SEX.

Emotional/sexual attraction to some Lesbians encompasses ONLY Lesbian romantic attraction. How differently Lesbians process information/act according to those processes and behave/how differently Lesbian brains work when compared to Heterosexual females/males (gay and straight) never factors in, even though THAT is what differentiates Lesbians from everybody WAY MORE than who we fuck/fucks us!

Whenever Lesbians are defined by sex, defined by how many males we fucked or didnt fuck, Lesbian is absent. Gold Star Lesbian was created by bitter, angry jealous STRAIGHT women/Radical Feminists/STRAIGHTBIANS to use in the way Transgender use cis to batter anyone not trans.

  • How DARE Dykes be attracted to Dykes and not be attracted to men!
  • How DARE Dykes by attracted to Dykes and not have to fight the urge to fall in love with men!
  • How DARE Dykes by attracted to Dykes and not gagging for fucking cock!  
  • How DARE Dykes by attracted to Dykes and not have to be revolted with female sexual relations!
  • How DARE Dykes be attracted to Dykes and not have to fight their sexual orientation!
  • How DARE Dykes be attracted to Dykes be so lucky they never had to date boys/men!
  • How DARE Dykes be attracted to Dykes be so lucky they dont need family/social approval! 
  • How DARE Dykes be attracted to Dykes be so lucky they dont have to act like normal women!
  • How DARE Dykes be attracted to Dykes be so lucky they can dress however they choose!
  • How DARE Dykes be attracted to Dykes be so lucky men take them seriously! 
  • How DARE
  • How DARE
  • How DARE
Dykes do NOT have to apologize for being Dykes! Nor do we call ourselves Gold Star Lesbians since there is no reason to. Mentally damaged, fucked up warped dick thirsty STRAIGHT women/Radical Feminists trying to shame our primary attraction to other Lesbians and our desire to partner with those Lesbians (common brain processing/shared sexuality etc) is as DICKsgraceful as it is DICKsgusting!

Dykes dont need a rating system to know who we are and who we're attracted to and we certainly do not need a pre-school system to reward or shame us!

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Saturday, April 22, 2017

Youth Trans Critical Professionals-A Litany of Homophobia-Racism-Misogyny and Xenophobia

The Youth Trans Critical Professionals (who are neither critical nor professional) have REALLY stepped their foot in it with their latest (guest) post, makes their former trans poster child middle aged woman look like Mother Theresa. The group had consisted (to my knowledge at the time) one pro-trans male, a child murderer and a smattering of academic-y RadFems/Jungians/Feminists. Whether thats changed, I cant say, and while clearly the Trans Critical Pros (who are neither critical nor pro) were woefully or is it willfully homophobic? I can honestly conclude from their current guest, Youth Trans Critical Professionals (who are neither critical nor pro) now promote at worst, support at best:
  • Homophobia
  • Racism 
  • Misogyny
  • Xenophobia 
  • White Supremacy 
Before IGNORANCE is latched onto by them like a life preserver, the info posted below was gathered within 10 minutes from a cursory look (I shudder to think what a thorough look would produce) and collected within 20 mins:

Youth Trans Critical Professionals (who are neither critical nor pro) latest guest post comes from a trans female who calls herself Todd A(lexander) Whitworth:
TAW who toyed on and off with transition for 20 plus years is trying to get a piece of the Transgender pie so many Trans are currently enjoying. Being that trans itself is no longer edgy or unique, she decided to:
Her tweets and FB accounts ad nauseam refrain is this:
She forgot to include racist and misogynists. I mean if you're going to make yourself special, why not be honest and go the whole hog.
Oooppsss! I forgot ableist!

She is also a penchant for Pence:
Race?

Trans issues?

While she proclaims to be gay (her partner Scott B is a self hating Homosexual who can at least tell himself since he's with a straight women that makes him straight too!) she is completely homophobic and VERY Homo ignorant. Hmmm just the type the Trans Critical Pros (who are neither critical nor pro) love:

The above BTW is her idol! More on that romance later. How about women/feminism/abortion/patriarchy etc?
Back to her gaymance with (no, wait-not her gay male lover) but instead:
Who is Gavin McInnes?
What does TAW think of Proud Boys???
The cherry on top being a Milo Yiannopoulos fan! Meaning TAW doesnt think children/teens are mature enough to choose transition, but as the fan of a pedophile DOES she think they are mature enough to choose to have sex with adult males?

I and millions of other Bloggers have been making our points for YEARS without resorting to using self hating misogynistic racist xenophilic homophobes. I can only conclude from this guest poster and others that the Youth Trans Critical Professionals (who are neither critical nor professional) support/hold at least some of their guest's loathsome proclivities.

Youth Trans Critical Professionals-if this is their critical, lord spare the children they claim to want to help!

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